In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question ; the question....
"What kind of man are you looking for?"
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking.
"Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said, "Yes."
She began to expound... As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to
ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills.
I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to
ask, "What can you bring to the table?"
The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.
She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I
need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every
aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to
explain.
She said, "I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally
because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded
man." I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually
because I don't need to be unequally yoked... believers mixed with unbelievers
is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection
financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone
who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong
enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order
to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't
taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive..taking care of
be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he
can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there
with a puzzled look on his face.
He said, "You're asking a lot."
She replied, "I'm worth a lot."
Monday, October 30, 2006
I'm worth a lot
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If only relationships could be discribed and discussed like that from the outset.
ReplyDeletealthough what i look for in a man is completely different.. it is still seen as 'too much' to ask for in one man. yet my answer is the same as hers.
ReplyDeletenobody should compromise when it comes to their partner.
good one.
I feel sorry for how some of you woman’s feel in the presence of a man.
ReplyDeleteWhat a deranged way to describe the relationship between genders.
A woman does not need to emphasize that she worth a lot because she is.
Needless the bad mouthing.
You are still scratching the surface, try to go deeper